Effective Communication Skills
Why do you need it to be an effective communication in the first place?
Is it just to prove that you are better than others?
Is it just to seek approval from others? or to just show off ?
Once you have your ideas ready, Can you communicate without getting a panic or anxiety attack?
These (or something similar) may be the prime motives for a communication. Let's say you have already grounded the simple truth about good communication and you are better than before.
But you feel you can do better than that. You are able to develop your
speaking abilities but somehow it does not fit in right and you feel
uncomfortable. Why would that be? What else would it take to have an effective
Here is one of those Million Dollar principles that can boost up any skill
you want to Master
It only shows that the sellers of such stuff (as well as buyers) are lazy.
Until you know where you are and you feel comfortable with that, no amount of
techniques or exercises will help you!!!!
So internalize the first principle of being an Effective Communicator
Know where you stand and be comfortable with that.
On the other hand, I have seen many speakers in expensive seminars work the
crowd into hair pulling frenzy (in a bad way); even with good content, they were driving people
nuts with their talking style.
In the same breed you will see people who had gone to some fancy high price
workshop and end up being terrible speakers. This is largely due to the lack of
congruence in their speech. It just does not fit in right with the rest of them.
If you were in my place, you would have felt the frustration too! You can
avoid it all by using the principles and techniques in our website.
So here I was, with a lot of high price material and in front of my eyes were
examples of how it won't work. I was feeling guilty. I had all that I needed but
still I could not be an effective communicator and develop effective
The Second Rule of great communication skills:
As long as anything that you do is a technique or a trick, it is not going to