Before we begin a discussion on how to build Self Esteem, let us
first understand the term "Self Esteem"
Self Esteem is defined as "Pride in oneself; self-respect" by Answers.com
One of my clients recently brought up the question of self esteem. He had a job
he enjoyed, big house and the whole package. But he was always dissatisfied and
felt he some how does not fit in and that he does not deserve it. His self Image
seem to be a small black and white picture (those who know NLP know what this
means)
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Sidebar: I do not practice commercially. I take clients only when they are
recommended by someone I know.
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I wanted to get a feel for the common wisdom about the topic. So I brought a
bunch of books and programs on building Self Esteem. After going through about
15 books and numerous audio programs I was ready to give up.
Books after books were written with the sole intention of over complicating this
simple issue. More I read, the more I was confused. Each person started adding
his own words to the idea of Self Esteem. At the end of it, I began to doubt
myself and my abilities. Some of these authors must be kicked in the right
place.
After many wasted hours, I managed to find one simple, straight forward and yet,
very effective Hypnosis program. Given a choice between the simpler and
complicated way, both being equally effective, I always choose the simpler
solution.
This program is called "Build Self Esteem" and created by a Hypnotherapist
called Mark Tyrrell. It was created specifically for people who enjoy passive
listening. To use this program all you do is sit down, strap your headphones and
listen. Listening to this program for 21 days consecutive days gives you the
best results.
So what is in this program? And how does it build self esteem?
This Hypnosis Mp3 suggests to your unconscious mind to treat yourself fairly. It
places hypnotic suggestions to reduce self critical talk and encourage positive
self talk. It goes beyond simple affirmations and uses post hypnotic suggestions
to
imprint a better picture of yourself (Again, NLP guys know what this means).
For those of you who are unfamiliar with NLP, no need to worry. In Simple words,
all you need to do to build self esteem is to build a better picture of
yourself in your mind.
The Creator of this program, Mark Tyrrell spends most of his time helping his
hypnotherapy clients build their self esteem. The techniques he uses works on
real world clients. He also teaches health professionals how to overcome Low
Self Esteem problems. He is good and knows how to Build Self Esteem easily.
By trusting Mark to be your guide towards better self esteem, you have made wise
choice. You are good hands.
I asked my client to listen to it for 21 days and come back. When he came back,
he looked a little different. He was wearing the type of clothes that he used
to, but he seems to look brighter.
He had a smile on his face and a spring in his step. I was hiding my curiosity
while I spoke to him and was startled when he said "Hey man I think you need to
cheer up a little…"
He was using more positive words and he talked with a cheer in his voice. I was
not sure if he is the same person anymore. I could not hide my curiosity any
more so I asked him what changed.
He stopped being a self Help junkie.
He threw out all the so called Self-help books and started to do one thing at a
time. He stuck to the Hypnosis mp3 I gave and listened to it everyday. The Mp3
started showing results slowly. He noticed a shift in his thinking and he
started believing in himself again. His Expectation, coupled with a well crafted
hypnosis mp3 seems to do the trick.
After this incident, I had second thoughts about writing this review. If all my
clients got better with these Hypnosis Mp3, how am I going to make a living?
But then I remembered. A Mentality of Abundance got me where I am today and
sharing your best with all is one of the most important principles of Abundance.
And thus I wrote this review/endorsement for Mark Tyrrell's hypnosis product.
Does the Mp3 help everyone Build Self Esteem?
Probably Not. Results that Andy experienced may not be typical. If you do not like the
idea of listening to things, this may not be as effective for you. If you are
used to over analyzing things, this may not work for you.
You do not need to believe that Hypnosis works. But you need have a belief that
change is possible and you can change. If you test this program to disprove its
effectiveness, guess what? you will succeed. Anticipation of success is an
important ingredient in changing yourself.
Hypnosis is just a tool. It is as good as the person using it.
Some of you may need something more complicated and a
logical approach towards
building Self Esteem. Fear not. Dr Joe Rubino has created the
Self-Esteem
Formula for the thinker in you. Dr Joe has been in the field of helping people
for a long time now. His program works well. Like I said, I prefer the simpler
path so I chose Mark's Hypnotic Mp3.
But if you need more brain fodder and need to understand how it work and all
that, Joe's program is best for you. It is massive and comes with an EBook and
several tapes/CDs.
Which ever option you choose, I suggest you to take it intently and stick to the
program for at least 21 consecutive days.
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